Life So Far

Hey there, it’s Dawn.

Thought I’d take a moment and introduce myself.

As a girl who has struggled with her finding her purpose in life, getting her relationship act together and trying to find a way to get the bills paid and then some, I’ve learned a thing or two along the way.  And now I’m happy to share with you.

Don’t get me wrong.  I’m still on the path of learning and growing every day.  I don’t have it all figured out yet.

But here’s where I get to share with you everything I’m learning that’s helping me on this path of passion, purpose, prosperity and LOVE.

Having been through the drama and trauma of dating and difficult relationships for a LOT of years in my life, I thought if I there was a way that I found to turn it around, then maybe I could help other women do the same.

The same was true about finding my passion and purpose in life… and consequently, my way to prosperity and abundance.

Like most little girls, I grew up wanting to find my Prince Charming who would whisk me off to the life of my dreams.

I wanted to get married, have babies and be married forever.

I may not have had the greatest role models for relationships growing up, but I was determined to do things differently.

Yea.  Well.  That didn’t exactly happen.

In fact, I pretty much ended up repeating ALL the patterns I saw growing up.

Submissiveness in the relationships with men.  Patterns of a scarcity and never having enough.  Being content with having to work really hard for everything in life.

And feeling like if I could just work harder, do more, be more… then somehow everything would turn around for me.

Nothing could have been further from the truth.

It’s scary how we just re-create what we grow up with sometimes, isn’t it?

Even when we have the best intentions to do things differently.

My relationships with money and men were THE biggest challenge in my life.

Frankly, it sucked.  I just didn’t get it.

I was relatively smart.  Had good jobs.  But I could just never get the money and men thing together.

I wanted the kind of relationship where you feel like you’ve found your soul mate.  Where you just want to be with that person all the time and can’t wait to spend the rest of your lives together.

And I wanted to be able to make money with ease and not feel like everything had to be so hard.  To be able to make money doing something I loved… not dreading getting up to go to work every day.

You know what I mean?

If I started to have some success in other areas of my life, it was meaningless without that one special guy to share it with.

And if I started a great relationship with a man, my career started to go downhill fast because my focus was on the guy, instead of on my work.

Have you ever had that happen?

No matter what I did, or what I learned, I still struggled with being able to attract the right relationship and also find financial success.

Those were some emotionally turbulent years with love and money!

I didn’t realize it back then, but I had so little self-esteem and self-worth from the traumatic experiences I’d grown up with that I had practically no boundaries in my relationships.  Well, let’s be honest, there was no practically about it, I simply had no boundaries.

‘No’ was something I just didn’t know how to say.  At least not in a meaningful way.

If I DID muster the courage to say it, I was a nervous wreck and scared of what might happen as a result.  If I DIDN’T say it, I gave people the opportunity to walk all over me.  Which they very often did.

I tended to attract controlling, abusive relationships with people who knew how to take advantage of my let’s-just-look-for-the-best-and-overlook-the-rest kind of nature.

But underneath my agree-to-anything-to-keep-the-peace personality, I was hurting and feeling desperate.

I went along with things to keep everyone else happy.  Yet all of my needs and desires got sacrificed in the process.

But I didn’t know HOW to change or do things differently.

So I kept creating the same patterns over and over again.  It was SO darn frustrating!

When I finally I got sick and tired of the no-love-life-no-success-and-no-money merry-go-round, I decided to do whatever it took to turn things around.

After years of confusion… and I do mean confusion, because I had NO idea who I was or what I was looking for, which of course, made it impossible to find…

Finally, I decided to figure out what I was doing wrong.  To understand WHY I kept repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

I was willing to take FULL responsibility for my life and what I was creating and do whatever it took to change things.

I studied everything I could about men, prosperity, attraction, dating, and relationships.  I went to seminars, retreats, workshops and worked with coaches for support.

The difference this time, was I was willing to look at what my part had been in attracting everything EXCEPT what I wanted.

I put everything I learned to work.

Then I had a breakthrough.  I figured out the secret to finally healing from the past so I could start attracting what I wanted in life… at last.

It wasn’t about changing the men or the other people in my life.  It was about changing who I was and what I was doing.

That was my big ‘ah-ha’ moment.

I stopped waiting around for Prince Charming to come along and rescue me.

I stopped blaming everyone and everything in my past.  That had just left me powerless to change and I just kept myself stuck repeating the same thing over and over again.

I took responsibility for my own happiness.

I got clear about who I was and what I wanted in life.

And the love I had wanted so desperately from a man, I learned to give myself.

Big revelation.

It was like I opened the flood gates of love in my life.

I started attracting men who not only treated me well, but who were successful, honest, kind and loving.

My income doubled, then tripled and then kept going up!

All of a sudden, dating became a fun adventure… THAT was miraculous from someone how had HATED dating with a passion all her life.

I decided to take everything I learned and to help YOU turn your life around… so you can finally let go of the past and find the love, passion, prosperity and purpose you’ve always wanted.

Because if I turned my life around, I KNOW you can do it too.

Finding love and success is possible at any age, if you’re willing to discover what it takes to start attracting what you want, instead of more of what you don’t want.  It starts with what you believe is possible.

If you can begin to believe that not only is the man of your dreams out there, but that he’s also looking for YOU, you’ll see the process of love and attraction start to unfold right before your eyes.  And it’s the same with your financial success.

The Universe longs to support us in creating all our desires, but first we have to value, honor, and respect ourselves and know that we deserve it.

YOU deserve a wonderful partner, a wonderful relationship, a wonderful career and a wonderful life.

I’m passionate about helping you create a life you love as the foundation for manifesting the love you deserve with the man of your dreams.  And the financial success as well.

I would love to share all the secrets and insights I’ve learned, so you don’t have to struggle with money or men anymore.

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I look forward to hearing from you and getting to know you as you take YOUR journey to LOVE!

Living with passion, prosperity, purpose and LOVE love is possible.  KNOW you deserve it.  Because you do.  And I’ll be here to remind you and support you along the way.

Big hugs and much love,

Dawn

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Certifications and Professional Training:

Author of the forthcoming book, “Heal the Love That Hurt So You Can Live, Love & Thrive Again.”

Coach For Life- Coach For Life- Life Coach Program with Peter Reding (ICF Accredited Coaching School)

Certified Dream Coach®- Certified by Marcia Wieder, President of Dream Coach University (ICF Accredited Coaching School)

Certified Money Breakthrough Method Coach®- Certified and trained by Kendall Summerhawk

Certified Passion Test Facilitator® – Trained and Certified by Chris & Janet Attwood, Enlightened Alliances, LLC

Bachelor of Science Degree in Metaphysics– Graduate of the American Institute of Holistic Theology

International Body Talk Association – Completed Modules 1 & 2 of the Body Talk System
Wings Seminars – Personal Effectiveness Seminar, Crossover & Listening Heart with Kris King

Masters of Manifestation – Dream University with Marcia Wieder and Carole Kammen

Member of the International Association of Women in Business Coaching (IAWBC)