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Self-Esteem
Have you ever been in a relationship where you always felt a little like you were on pins and needles…? Like you didn’t quite know what to expect or how the other person would respond at times? Everything always felt a little on edge? I was in a relationship like that for a few years. [...]
I heard a story the other day about how we get
what we think we deserve in life. It reminded me
that we also get what we think we deserve in
relationships. See if you agree…
Dogs love bones. Right?
Yes. But what dogs REALLY love is steak.
They settle for bones, because that’s usually all
they can get.
But if you throw out a bone AND a piece of steak,
they will go for the steak every time.
So why do they settle for bones instead of waiting
for steak?
Well, because they’re dogs and not in charge of
their lives.
But WE are not dogs.
Yet how many times do we settle for bones, instead
of waiting for steak?
“BOUNDARIES!” Nadia screamed at me in her heavy Eastern European accent. “You have GOT to learn how to have boundaries or you will never achieve the kind of success you are meant to have in this world. You have GOT to learn how to say NO in a healthy way, especially to those closest to you and those who are trying to take advantage of your time and energy…”
Okay, Nadia, I get it. I’ve got to have boundaries.
Nadia is one of the most brilliant people I have ever had the pleasure of working with.
Who is she?
Nadia Tumas is an incredibly gifted and talented hand analyst and life purpose coach. She recently did a hand analysis for me and helped me discover some pretty amazing things about myself and my life.
I admit it, I have been working like crazy lately.
Since I really love what I do, that’s not hard to do. But I have felt like I have been needing to get away for months and just haven’t taken the time.
So when the wonderful friend invited me away for the weekend, I took advantage of it. I completely disengaged, relaxed in a beautiful hotel and enjoyed a fabulous weekend for three lovely days.
I got home feeling completely reenergized.
Creating Magic Clue #1: Taking breaks and getting away can have a profoundly positive effect on your energy!
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